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Begin the session by stating
that some families have established clear rules around
alcohol and other drugs. Although they may vary depending
on age, these rules can apply to adults, youth, and
children. These rules may even extend to guests.
- Ask the
students to spend a few minutes writing down the rules on
alcohol and other drugs that exist in their own families.
Ask them to make sure they include things that they are
allowed to do as well as the things they are not allowed
to (e.g., have a drink with the adults at special family
celebrations; attend a party as long as they call home
for a drive if there is no “safe” driver
available at the party).
- Some students
may come from households where, for a variety of reasons,
there are no rules or they do not know them. Try to avoid
singling students out by requiring everyone to provide
verbal answers. Add the phrase “or write down what
you think the rules should be” to the previous
directions to take these students into account.
-
Ask the
students to share their rules they have written down
and record them on the board or on flip chart paper.
You can anticipate a wide range of items such as
- No
drinking anything at any time, no exceptions.
- Can have
the occasional drink on special family occasions.
- No
illicit drugs ever (cannabis may be singled out).
- Call us
to come get you if you are in a situation where no
one is sober enough to drive home, no matter what you
have been doing.
- If you
want to try a drug, bring it home and try it here.
[Watch for examples of rules that restrict behaviour, and rules that seem to be trying to keep teens safe, no matter how they may sound.]
- No
drinking anything at any time, no exceptions.
- Ask the students to share the
consequences of breaking the rules in their family. Ask
if they think the consequences fit the circumstance or
should they be different?
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When you have a
complete list, lead a class discussion around the rules
by having them complete the following
statements:
- I think
my family’s rules about alcohol and other drugs
are __________
- Family
rules about alcohol and other drugs are useful
because __________
- Families
make rules about alcohol because __________
The final statement should include a response that the family rules are made to keep everyone safe. If no one points this out, mention it to the class: “The use of alcohol and other drugs always carries some risk with it. Many families make rules to try to keep their children safe and out of harm’s way.”
- I think
my family’s rules about alcohol and other drugs
are __________
2. Numerous parent and teen drug education resources and programs include the identification of family rules as an activity. The activity included here was inspired by the Australia Department of Education, Training and Employment’s resources from 2000, Drug Education R-12. Teacher Support Package. The Middle Years.